An addition: being called “one of the girls” or part of the girl group irritates me. I have never since I`ve known about my feelings referred to my group as a group of girls.

But I feel inadequate around guys, oh I do, so very much, although I feel like that around anyone tbh (especially if they are confident people).

I was not a “tomboy” growing up because that means that you are still a girl, only acting boyish (at least it did to me – I used hate the term and the dislike has lingered)